Alternative word for jealous (without the negative connotations)





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I was wondering whether there is a word similar to jealousy but without the negative connotations? For example, if I really admired someone for their memory and wished mine could be as good - however, I didn't feel begrudging of their good memory, or wished I could have good memory and they didn't.
Basically, a word meaning I'm happy for someone for their good fortune, but wished I also had it.



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  • It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

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I was wondering whether there is a word similar to jealousy but without the negative connotations? For example, if I really admired someone for their memory and wished mine could be as good - however, I didn't feel begrudging of their good memory, or wished I could have good memory and they didn't.
Basically, a word meaning I'm happy for someone for their good fortune, but wished I also had it.



Thank you :)










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  • It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

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    Dec 6 '14 at 19:20
















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I was wondering whether there is a word similar to jealousy but without the negative connotations? For example, if I really admired someone for their memory and wished mine could be as good - however, I didn't feel begrudging of their good memory, or wished I could have good memory and they didn't.
Basically, a word meaning I'm happy for someone for their good fortune, but wished I also had it.



Thank you :)










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I was wondering whether there is a word similar to jealousy but without the negative connotations? For example, if I really admired someone for their memory and wished mine could be as good - however, I didn't feel begrudging of their good memory, or wished I could have good memory and they didn't.
Basically, a word meaning I'm happy for someone for their good fortune, but wished I also had it.



Thank you :)







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  • It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

    – user100265
    Dec 6 '14 at 19:20





















  • It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

    – user100265
    Dec 6 '14 at 19:20



















It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

– user100265
Dec 6 '14 at 19:20







It still seems none of the words put forth in answers here fully describe that feeling, at least in my opinion. I wonder if there is a German word with that exact quality? I believe that language is known for words that represent precise feelings. eg: schadenfreude.

– user100265
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Envious is a term which fits your description.






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    Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

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    @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

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  • At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

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I think intrigued might be a better fit.




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    I found 2 answers that worked for me.



    "Aspire", as in "I aspire to have what you have".



    Or "benign envy". They did a whole research paper on it! http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/not-jealous-others-success-13972.html






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      Wish may be the word you want.




      I wish I had memories as nice as yours.







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        Envious is a term which fits your description.






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          Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

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          @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

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        • At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

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          yesterday
















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        Envious is a term which fits your description.






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          Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

          – user68911
          Mar 16 '14 at 19:54






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          @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

          – StoneyB
          Mar 16 '14 at 20:19











        • At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

          – DJClayworth
          yesterday














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        Envious is a term which fits your description.






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        Envious is a term which fits your description.







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          Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

          – user68911
          Mar 16 '14 at 19:54






        • 1





          @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

          – StoneyB
          Mar 16 '14 at 20:19











        • At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

          – DJClayworth
          yesterday














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          Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

          – user68911
          Mar 16 '14 at 19:54






        • 1





          @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

          – StoneyB
          Mar 16 '14 at 20:19











        • At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

          – DJClayworth
          yesterday








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        Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

        – user68911
        Mar 16 '14 at 19:54





        Or, better yet, desirous, which has no negative connotation whatsoever.

        – user68911
        Mar 16 '14 at 19:54




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        @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

        – StoneyB
        Mar 16 '14 at 20:19





        @Elise But you are desirous of Joe's memory, not of Joe -- that would imply something quite different!

        – StoneyB
        Mar 16 '14 at 20:19













        At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

        – DJClayworth
        yesterday





        At the risk of going down a grammar-cliche rabbit-hole, jealous and envious do not mean the same thing.

        – DJClayworth
        yesterday













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        I think intrigued might be a better fit.




        a mysterious or fascinating quality.







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                I found 2 answers that worked for me.



                "Aspire", as in "I aspire to have what you have".



                Or "benign envy". They did a whole research paper on it! http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/not-jealous-others-success-13972.html






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                  I found 2 answers that worked for me.



                  "Aspire", as in "I aspire to have what you have".



                  Or "benign envy". They did a whole research paper on it! http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/not-jealous-others-success-13972.html






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                    I found 2 answers that worked for me.



                    "Aspire", as in "I aspire to have what you have".



                    Or "benign envy". They did a whole research paper on it! http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/not-jealous-others-success-13972.html






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                    I found 2 answers that worked for me.



                    "Aspire", as in "I aspire to have what you have".



                    Or "benign envy". They did a whole research paper on it! http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/not-jealous-others-success-13972.html







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                        Wish may be the word you want.




                        I wish I had memories as nice as yours.







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                            I wish I had memories as nice as yours.







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                            I wish I had memories as nice as yours.








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