Is there a word for saying something in a nice way without saying it?





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So, you are walking all day with a friend, you feel tired, you don't want to say: "I'm tired, let's stop", but say: "Oh dear, we've walked a lot today".



A friend promised to meet you to go for the football match at 9pm. It's 9 and you don't say: "You forgot the match right?", but for example: "Enjoy your dinner".



What's the word to describe these situations? Not sarcasm, because that is in a negative scope. Can we call it "rhetoric"?



Example, if the friend answers: "Oh thanks mate" and he really forgot, you would want to say: "'Enjoy your dinner' was ______".










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  • Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

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  • @TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

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  • I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

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So, you are walking all day with a friend, you feel tired, you don't want to say: "I'm tired, let's stop", but say: "Oh dear, we've walked a lot today".



A friend promised to meet you to go for the football match at 9pm. It's 9 and you don't say: "You forgot the match right?", but for example: "Enjoy your dinner".



What's the word to describe these situations? Not sarcasm, because that is in a negative scope. Can we call it "rhetoric"?



Example, if the friend answers: "Oh thanks mate" and he really forgot, you would want to say: "'Enjoy your dinner' was ______".










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  • Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

    – The Nate
    Feb 27 '16 at 15:44











  • @TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

    – Blue Genie
    Feb 27 '16 at 23:29











  • I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

    – The Nate
    Feb 28 '16 at 9:07














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So, you are walking all day with a friend, you feel tired, you don't want to say: "I'm tired, let's stop", but say: "Oh dear, we've walked a lot today".



A friend promised to meet you to go for the football match at 9pm. It's 9 and you don't say: "You forgot the match right?", but for example: "Enjoy your dinner".



What's the word to describe these situations? Not sarcasm, because that is in a negative scope. Can we call it "rhetoric"?



Example, if the friend answers: "Oh thanks mate" and he really forgot, you would want to say: "'Enjoy your dinner' was ______".










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So, you are walking all day with a friend, you feel tired, you don't want to say: "I'm tired, let's stop", but say: "Oh dear, we've walked a lot today".



A friend promised to meet you to go for the football match at 9pm. It's 9 and you don't say: "You forgot the match right?", but for example: "Enjoy your dinner".



What's the word to describe these situations? Not sarcasm, because that is in a negative scope. Can we call it "rhetoric"?



Example, if the friend answers: "Oh thanks mate" and he really forgot, you would want to say: "'Enjoy your dinner' was ______".







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  • Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

    – The Nate
    Feb 27 '16 at 15:44











  • @TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

    – Blue Genie
    Feb 27 '16 at 23:29











  • I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

    – The Nate
    Feb 28 '16 at 9:07



















  • Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

    – The Nate
    Feb 27 '16 at 15:44











  • @TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

    – Blue Genie
    Feb 27 '16 at 23:29











  • I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

    – The Nate
    Feb 28 '16 at 9:07

















Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

– The Nate
Feb 27 '16 at 15:44





Kindly refrain from abusing rhetoric in such a manner. It never did anything to you.

– The Nate
Feb 27 '16 at 15:44













@TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

– Blue Genie
Feb 27 '16 at 23:29





@TheNate that's why I asked the question in the first place

– Blue Genie
Feb 27 '16 at 23:29













I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

– The Nate
Feb 28 '16 at 9:07





I do hope you knew I was joking. It's a perfectly good question, obviously.

– The Nate
Feb 28 '16 at 9:07










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Try diplomatic.




Diplomatic adjective
1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
- ODO




Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):




  • thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and

  • tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.






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  • Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

    – The Nate
    Feb 27 '16 at 15:46











  • @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

    – Lawrence
    Feb 27 '16 at 16:03











  • Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

    – The Nate
    Feb 28 '16 at 9:15



















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Euphemism - a mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing.






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    "Imply" may foot the bill.




    Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
    'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'




    Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.



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      Try diplomatic.




      Diplomatic adjective
      1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
      - ODO




      Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):




      • thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and

      • tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.






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      • Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

        – The Nate
        Feb 27 '16 at 15:46











      • @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

        – Lawrence
        Feb 27 '16 at 16:03











      • Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

        – The Nate
        Feb 28 '16 at 9:15
















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      Try diplomatic.




      Diplomatic adjective
      1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
      - ODO




      Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):




      • thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and

      • tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.






      share|improve this answer


























      • Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

        – The Nate
        Feb 27 '16 at 15:46











      • @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

        – Lawrence
        Feb 27 '16 at 16:03











      • Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

        – The Nate
        Feb 28 '16 at 9:15














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      Try diplomatic.




      Diplomatic adjective
      1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
      - ODO




      Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):




      • thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and

      • tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.






      share|improve this answer















      Try diplomatic.




      Diplomatic adjective
      1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
      - ODO




      Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):




      • thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and

      • tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.







      share|improve this answer














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      • Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

        – The Nate
        Feb 27 '16 at 15:46











      • @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

        – Lawrence
        Feb 27 '16 at 16:03











      • Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

        – The Nate
        Feb 28 '16 at 9:15



















      • Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

        – The Nate
        Feb 27 '16 at 15:46











      • @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

        – Lawrence
        Feb 27 '16 at 16:03











      • Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

        – The Nate
        Feb 28 '16 at 9:15

















      Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

      – The Nate
      Feb 27 '16 at 15:46





      Might want to toss in Tactful, thoughtful, gracious, and/or kind.

      – The Nate
      Feb 27 '16 at 15:46













      @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

      – Lawrence
      Feb 27 '16 at 16:03





      @TheNate Indeed :) . I particularly like thoughtful and kind as they speak to intent and character. Diplomatic as well as your contributions of tactful and gracious describe the phrase and manner.

      – Lawrence
      Feb 27 '16 at 16:03













      Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

      – The Nate
      Feb 28 '16 at 9:15





      Yeah, I tossed this here because you already had the best answer of those posted, imo. Figured expanding on that base would be best for everyone.

      – The Nate
      Feb 28 '16 at 9:15













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              Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
              'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'




              Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.



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                "Imply" may foot the bill.




                Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
                'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'




                Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.



                Reference:
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                  "Imply" may foot the bill.




                  Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
                  'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'




                  Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.



                  Reference:
                  http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/imply






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                  "Imply" may foot the bill.




                  Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
                  'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'




                  Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.



                  Reference:
                  http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/imply







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